Parenting Skills: Even though we share the same space and time with our children, the worlds that we live in are quite different. A great parent is not about having money But is a parent who listens and understands their children. It’s the little things that make a difference.

Important Tips on How to become a better Parent

Tell them you love them:-

There’s nothing wrong with expressing your love to your children. It’ll make them feel comfortable and happy. Your love will always make your children stronger and more positive. It’s nice to hear that. Always tell them that you love them no matter what.

ALWAYS be supportive of them:-

Adding to that, always be supportive of your children. Yes, they are going to mess up things many times in life. However, there is a way to show your disapproval, and be supportive, all at the same time! One of the worst things a parent can do is get so mad at their child that they end up abandoning them in their time of need.

So, calm yourself! Take your time and Push aside your anger and help your child fix whatever mistake they just made.

Don’t be a hypocrite:-

Make sure that from a young age you teach them the difference between what is right and wrong. Teach them how to stand up against wrong. Don’t just say it! Don’t just tell them to treat people with respect and kindness and then turn around and be disrespectful and harsh to your neighbor. Your words hold meaning – act like it.

Emphasize that it’s OK to fail:-

There is this mentality that you can’t afford to fail. We need to accept failures in our life. You should always push them to do their best but just make sure that they know that they don’t have to be perfect all of the time. Tell them that “It’s OK to fail sometimes”. They just have to have the determination to get back up – and come back stronger. Hug them and be supportive.

Let your children make mistakes:-

There is always this bad phase in our life where we all make terrible decisions and mistakes. Making mistakes is a vital part of growing up. Your children don’t need you to prevent them from falling; they just need you to be there when they’re trying to get up. Let them make mistakes and learn from them. You just have to be there for them, that’s all they want.

Inspire your children to follow their dreams:-

And most importantly, always inspire your children to follow their dreams. They are at a point in their lives whereas much as they need you to be realistic with them, they also need you to be supportive of their dreams. You don’t need to sugarcoat things, just be realistic with them and tell them your honest opinions. Tell them what you think and according to you what is right. Rest is up to them, they are mature enough to decide. No matter what your child wants to do, make sure they know that you’ll help them get there.